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Close family links in a Victorian rural community

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Tilney All saints c1826  

In rural communities until the first half of the 19th century most people would travel only occasionally to other parishes and when they did it would usually be on foot, on horseback or by horse and cart.  Before the shift to a more urban economy families would often only move to find work and then relatively short distances would be the norm.  Closely knit extended families were a feature of rural communities with relatives living and working together in close proximity.

It is unsurprising with this rural backdrop that many village marriages will have taken place between a few tens of families and that marriages between first cousins was relatively common and, indeed, often considered more desirable than marriage to non-relatives1.  It was not until the end of the 19th century, when mobility had become more commonplace and public opinion had begun to change, that the levels of these marriages declined. 

The rate of first cousin marriages in the generation estimated to have married during the 1920s was just 0·32% while in the previous generation more than 1% of marriages were between first cousins2.  An earlier study by George Darwin, in 1875, found that 4.5% of aristocratic marriages were between first cousins, 3.5% among the gentry and upper-middle classes, 2.25% in the countryside and falling to just over 1% for all marriages in London.

Census data for Tilney All Saints (Major family is 5+ of same surname)
Year
Number of
people
Number of
major families
 
1841
441
41
 
1851
575
50
 
1861
480
46
 
1871
571
40
 

Queen Victoria's own happy marriage to her first cousin, Albert, may have been seen as promoting these marriages and many Victorian novels featured happy marriages between cousins (Emily Bronte's Wuthering Heights, Bleak House by Charles Dickens and other cousin relationships occur in books or verse by Elizabeth Barrett Browning, Anthony Trollope and others).

In 1861 more than 50% of the residents of Tilney All Saints, near King's Lynn in Norfolk, where some of my ancestors were born and brought up, had been born in Tilney and 90% of them had been born in Norfolk, the vast majority within a 10 mile radius of Tilney.

England was full of villages in which generations of intermarriage had resulted in a community tied together by a complex network of blood relationships1.

Summary

The following diagram attempts to present some of the complex blood relationships that existed within the Tilney families who appear in my family history:

  1. Two Overton brothers (BTO & WEO) marrying two Failes sisters (SF & AF)
  2. Two Pollyn brothers (BJP & RRP) marrying two Overton sisters (AAO & ESO)
  3. Two sisters marrying their cousins (EAP & GHS and AEP & AO)
  4. Two Overton cousins (CO & MO) both marrying John Shepherd Miller
  5. Two Nicholls cousins marrying (BEN & HN)
  6. It also seems probable that two Failes brothers (WF2 & CF) married Coe sisters but this has not been proved
  7. Although not represented in the diagram below, it is now known that further blood ties existed in the Failes family. Watson Failes' (WF1) daughter, Elizabeth, married James Failes in London in 1834.  Their son, also Watson Failes, also marrying a Failes (Elizabeth Caroline, daughter of Christopher Failes CF2 & Caroline Coe).  While the relationship between James & Elizabeth is not yet known (they are thought to be cousins) it means that 3 of their children's 4 grandparents were Failes (these children can be found here).

Close family links in a Victorian rural community - Failes, Overton, Pollyn etc

Key Name Date of birth Date of death Key Name Date of birth Date of death
WF1 Watson Failes (see note 7 above) 1773/4 1830 AAO Ann Abigail Overton 1833 1875
CF1 Catherine Fisher 1780/1 1841 CO2 Christopher Overton 1838 1911
WO William Overton 1781 Not known MJ Martha Jude 1838 1932
ST Sophia Turner c1779 1810 ESO Elizabeth Sarah Overton 1841 Not known
TP Thomas Pollyn c1811 Not known MO Maria Overton 1843 Not known
MAJ Mary A Johnson 1812/3 Not known JSM John Shepherd Miller 1833/4 Not known
WF2 Watson Failes 1805 Not known WS William Spratt 1849/50 Not known
CF2 Christopher Failes (see note 7 above) 1821 1891 SO2 Susannah Overton 1847 Not known
SF Sarah Failes 1807 1841 EAP Elizabeth Ann Pollyn 1869 Not known
AF Ann Failes 1811 1902 AEP Ada Ellen Pollyn 1867 Not known
BTO Benjamin Turner Overton 1804 1878 AO Adam Overton 1864 Not known
WEO William Edmund Overton 1802 Not known RO Rosanna Overton 1872 1965
SO1 Sophia Overton 1806 1811 JEN John Edward Nicholls 1869 1956
JN Jonathan Nicholls 1835/6 Not known WHN Walter Hawes Nichols 1864 Not known
AH Amy Hawes 1836/7 Not known EB Ellen (Nellie) Brown 1873/4 Not known
BJP Benjamin Johnson Pollyn 1843 1907 GHS George Henry Spratt 1876 Not known
RRP Robert Remington Pollyn 1840 Not known BEN Beris Esther Nichols 1914  
CO Catherine Overton 1829 1894 HN Henry (Harry) Nichols 1908 1993

Sources

1 Family ties in Victorian England by Claudia Nelson(recommended reading if this subject is of interest to you)
2 Cambridge University Press Copyright © 2001
3 UK census returns www.ancestry.co.uk (Subscription required)

If anyone has any further information on the subject of these families or family links in rural communities I would be delighted to hear from you.

Author:  Barry Ennever

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